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<\/a> <\/div> <\/div> On both Friday last week and Monday of this week the Critical Whiteness Studies class had two guests help lead a discussion.\u00a0 On Friday Krystal Grint\u00a0a Training Specialist for the El Paso County Department of Human Services came to discuss how to talk about racial issues with people who\u00a0are resistant. This was helpful for us for many reasons.\u00a0 Throughout this class we have created a safe space for everyone to talk about their experience.\u00a0 With the exception of Heidi, myself and one other Asian American girl our class of fourteen\u00a0we are all\u00a0\u201cwhite\u201d which means many white kids are talking about being white.\u00a0 This conversation is one that we have decided is super important because many white Americans don\u2019t think about the fact they are white or what exactly that means and entails.\u00a0 That is what we are trying to tear down in this class, the wall that separates many whites from their racial identity.\u00a0 Because of this we are, as a class, trying to start a white club on campus.\u00a0 The title of this club is still to be determined but will most likely not be called white club.\u00a0 This will create a space for the white students on campus to get together and talk about their racial identity, I know that this is something that many people will laugh at or call the KKK but obviously this is something we are taking seriously and are prepared for (this is clearly not a group prepetuating white supremacy either).\u00a0 This will be a space for anyone to talk about white heritage, whether they know their own heritage or not this will be the place to ask questions and deconstruct whiteness as a whole.\u00a0 More details are to come on this topic but Grint was there to help us learn how to deal with opposition in a useful way.\u00a0 With this club we want start a discussion and educate others, not to impose our believes on anyone or take anyone down, we honestly believe it is important for everyone to have a safe space to talk about what role race plays in their lives and that yes, white is a race as well.<\/p>\n
Grint had us come up with strategies, tools and efforts to having a respectful conversation with anyone on any topic that\u00a0we may not see eye to eye with.\u00a0 Some of the most important ones for me were:<\/p>\n
Not acting purely on emotions<\/p>\n
Asking them questions to understand their views<\/p>\n
Really listening to the answers they give you<\/p>\n
Staying calm<\/p>\n
Suspending your own judgment<\/p>\n
Communicating accurately what you are trying to say<\/p>\n
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With these ideas in mind we were able to have a pretty passionate discussion between the differences of showing respect and having respect to get your point across. \u00a0If one of the students from this class were trying to have a conversation with a KKK member we would know not to shout in their face wildly about how stupid we think they are and try to voice our opinions on them because nothing would be accomplished, trying to fight fire with fire.\u00a0 However we don\u2019t actually have to respect their beliefs and values we just have to be able to hear them out (no matter how much that may hurt) and then calmly tell our side to the story.\u00a0 Maybe in the end we would get nowhere with them still but we also might make them question their beliefs and with the facts that we can give allow them to then do what they will with that.\u00a0 And that is what our club will be trying to accomplish as well.\u00a0 Not everyone is going to appreciate this club and there may even be some opposition but we know what the point is and we all stand behind it so as long as we can skillfully and respectfully have these conversations with our opposition we will be our minds successful.<\/p>\n
Grint also had us do an interesting exercise where we all have bowls that represented our circle of people.\u00a0 There were other bowls in front of us with all different color beads, white, black, yellow, red, brown, and then she asked us questions about people in our lives and based on the question we picked the color bead that represents that person.\u00a0 The first question was the color of the last person we dated other examples were the author of the last book we read, our best friend, our hairdresser, our neighbor to the left of us, etc.\u00a0 At the end we all looked at our bowls and were able to see on a very small-scale the group of people who we surround ourselves by, most likely unconsciously.\u00a0 It was a fun activity and one I suggest you look into (attached is the picture of my bowl and some other strategies we came up with).
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